Everyday Spirituality: A Down-To-Earth Look at Connecting with Your Spiritual Self

The word spirituality can conjure up many images.negative, self-talk gremlins that have been living in
You might, for instance, think of a guru sittingour minds for years! Simply concentrate on the
cross-legged on a mountaintop looking forwhite silence and every time a nagging thought
enlightenment. This is one form of spiritualcrosses your mind, gently brush it away and
practice that has its place, but for most of uscarry on focusing on the silence. Taking deep
working, busy people, it is not really an option inbreaths in and out in a rhythmic manner is
our hectic and stressful lives.another important element of centering and
It seems that in our culture of transient lifestylesfinding the silence. By doing this, you will start to
and excessive materialism, we are running fasterallow genuine contact with your inner guidance.
and faster to get ahead or to keep up with ourGuided meditation CDs are available to help you
neighbor and yet feeling less and less connectedvisualize different scenes that are supportive of
to him or her, and to ourselves.the connection with inner guidance. For those
But what if you could find inner peace andpersons new to meditation and silent reflection, I
centeredness on a daily basis to help you copewould recommend that they use these tools as
with the challenges and demands of living in thethey provide a sort of life preserver to hold on
21st century? In fact, you can achieve thisto, that will help them to stay focused and
through the practice of "Everyday Spirituality".connected on the messages they receive and not
This is a conscious choice to create and keep aget bored or frustrated if nothing happens the
connection to your own inner wisdom while stillfirst few times.
doing all the everyday tasks that are necessary4. Ask a question or ask for guidance on some
to function in society.pressing issue. Once you feel comfortable that
The simple concept is that we can link ouryou can recreate the white canvas on a regular
practical lifestyle with our spiritual centerto createbasis and with very few gremlins interfering, it is
greater balance and peace in our lives on atime to try out this new connection. We have all
consistent basis. This inner guidance is a powerfulthe answers to our worries and fears within us. If
force inside each of us. If allowed, it will clearlywe allow time for silent reflection as suggested in
guide us in all decisions we make and challengesthis article, we will be able to reach that place of
we face. We cannot chase it, however, orhigher wisdom within ourselves, which will guide us
demand that it appear. We must allow theto our greatest good and help us deal with all the
connection to be made through the silence andchallenges in our lives. All the messages we need
introspection found in meditation and quiet time.are inside of us, we must simply stop, make time
Here are five simple steps that you can do takeand listen.
to bring Everyday Spirituality into your life:5. Keep an inspirational journal nearby. A blank
1. Make at least 15 minutes available for reflectionjournal (such as a notebook with an attractive
in your schedule every day. That is not a lot ofcover) can be used to record images or
time when you consider how many waking hoursmessages you receive during these exercises.
you have in a day. Get up 15 minutes earlier eachOften when the meditation is finished, you are still
day or turn off the television for just 15 minutesin a very relaxed state that is conducive to
in the evening. Early mornings, or some time afterreceiving more insightful messages. As you start
dinner are often best, but any time that can beto write one thought, another will often follow it,
set aside for this, preferably at about the sameand another and another and soon you are writing
time every day, will work.a string of thoughts that can help you make
2. Create a Sacred Space in your home. Thissense of things you have asked. This is another
might be a small area in the corner of yourway to make contact with your inner guidance,
bedroom or a separate room in the house thatthrough a sort of inspirational writing. It does not
will become your refuge from the chaos of life. Ithappen all the time, but sometimes you may find
is your private place that you can fill with yourthat you write some very interesting things in
favorite things such as flowers, candles, incense,your journal that you can look back at later.
soft music and meaningful pictures. Make it a ritualMeditative practices like this can allow you to gain
to return to this place regularly. Soon you willclarify on many personal and professional issues
start to crave it because it will offer solace andand can help to reduce blood pressure, stress
serenity in this sometimes difficult world. If youlevels and other health related ailments. You will
spend time regularly in your sacred space, yourgain a new insight into yourself and therefore, be
positive energy will also build up there and you willmore productive and successful at work.
notice that you feel happy and peaceful when youThese five action steps will allow you to
are there.reconnect with the inner self that is deep inside
3. Get comfortable, close your eyes and searchyou - the real you - who you are at the core of
for the silence. That's right. Search for the silenceyour being. Perhaps you have not been in touch
in your mind's eye and try to empty your brainwith that real you for a long time. By creating this
of all the thoughts that clutter it, and never givetype of Everyday Spirituality ritual, you will be able
you any peace. Create in your mind a blank, whiteto face the world with a new outlook of serenity,
canvas like new fallen snow that no one hasinner calm and balance, no matter what the
walked on yet. This is not easy to do. Many of uscircumstances.
have little voices in our heads that fill us with