Silk or Real? Your Wedding Flower Questions Put to Rest - At Last

Silk or real; what's a bride to do? For manyWell, some of the most common cut flowers,
brides, the question is really perplexing -- especiallysuch as roses, gerberas (gerber daisies) and
for those who want to mix a dash oforchids, are available all year round. So you don't
"Do-It-Yourself" into their wedding flowerhave to worry about seasonality with these
preparations.flowers.
Obviously, silk comes with some advantages -- it'sBut others, like peonies, lily of the valley and
tough and shelf stable, and the petals won't comeranunculus, have a definite season. Expect to pay
off at the worst possible moment. On the othermore if you buy out of season. And the quality
hand, silk flowers don't always look real, and theymay not be as good.
aren't always a bargain, either.Just to illustrate how important season can be: a
The fact is, the silk versus real dilemma is moreflorist we know planned her whole wedding
confusing than ever, thanks in part due to thearound the very brief time in spring when lily of
increasing sophistication -- and accompanying costthe valley was in season, so she could use fresh!
-- of silk and latex flowers. To navigate this newWhat's your personal feelings on silk vs. artificial
terrain, we interviewed Paul Ajao, a professionalflowers? As a professional florist, would you mix
florist and cofounder of Pure Botanics ( athem in arrangements -- for example, use silk for
UK-based floral designer who specializes inthe super-pricy flowers like calla lilies or orchids?
weddings.Personally, we love working with real flowers. But
You keep hearing that silk flowers have gottenit's true that silk definitely comes with some
"better and better." Yet when you go to the localadvantages. For starters:
craft store, they look just about as artificial as- They won't wilt.
ever. Where are these super-realistic flowers, and- They're a lasting memento of your big day.
how can a bride get her hands on them?- They're easy to transport if you're getting
It's true that artificial flowers have improved. Butmarried abroad.
the quality varies widely from brand to brand. In- You can prepare them long in advance.
addition to craft stores, take a look at whichThe last point's important if you're preparing
brands your local florists are using. After all, theirflowers yourself. By their nature, you have to
reputation depends on delivering a beautiful result.arrange fresh flowers the day before the
Also, they might be able to order in artificialwedding at the earliest -- and usually the morning
flowers for you -- ones that you can't get in theof. This doesn't leave you much time to switch
craftstores.gears if you aren't happy with the results. On the
One brand with a great reputation that floristsother hand, you can experiment with and arrange
use regularly is Sia, which you can find in the UK,silk flowers weeks in advance. That leaves you
US and Australia.plenty of time to relax and pamper yourself in
Is it true that artificial flowers photograph poorly?the run up to your wedding!
And does that include the high-end latex type?And yes, you can mix artificial and real flowers
When you take close-ups of artificial flowers, yes,with great results. A friend of ours loves
it can be pretty obvious that the flowers aren'tranunculus and wanted them in a mixed bouquet
real. But this depends a lot on the quality of thewith roses and gerberas. Unfortunately, ranunculus
artificial flowers you've used.was out of season for her wedding date, and
Remember that any shiny surfaces may causewould have cost a lot. So she opted to tuck
the camera flash to "bounce," which looks prettyartificial ranunculus into a fresh bouquet. The
unnatural for flowers. The common off-the-shelfresults, and the photos, were beautiful.
flowers can be pretty shiny.Anything else you want to add?
One argument for silk flowers is that freshContrary to popular opinion, don't think that silk
flowers are seasonal, but some florists areflowers are always going to be cheaper than real.
suggesting that season isn't so important theseMany of the quality ones are as expensive as the
days -- that almost everything can be imported allreal thing -- if not more.
year round. Are you finding this to be true?