Valentine's Day - Should We Confine Love to One Day?

Love is in air, romance is ruling everyone's mindsomeone whom she holds too close to her heart,
and the markets are flooded with chocolates,although she feels that Valentine's Day gives one
cute stuffed toys, mushy greetings cards andanother excuse to party or have a nice dinner
other goodies with lovey-dovey messages. Yes,with family and friends. You take time out from
it's the day of lovers and friends, the day toyour hectic work schedule to spend some
express your love and affection to someonevaluable moments with your loved ones. But that
very special and to celebrate and spend time withis where her definition of Valentine's Day ends.
someone who means the world to you - yourAryan has a similar opinion. According to him, love
beloved, your valentine!cannot be planned. It can happen any time, on
Valentine's Day is here along with the season forany day, at any moment.
cards, roses and chocolates. But sad is the factHe does not think that it would become more
that not many of us know its true importancespecial or everlasting if you express it on
and the reasons for the widespread celebration ofValentine's Day. You might take the day as an
this day. Today, it is just another excuse toopportunity to reassure someone of your love
celebrate, to exchange gifts and for the card andfor him or her. It is just like any other day when
chocolate companies to make some quick money.you tell your sweetie how much he or she means
Youngsters view the day as the reason to go outto you.
on some extra-special dates, to propose to theirFor Jim and Stephanie, Valentine's Day has double
crushes and to make some new girlfriends orimportance. It is the day when the two of them
boyfriends. But the very beauty and importancegot married 15 years ago. At that time, they
of the day has been lost in this commercialisation.were not even aware of such a day, so it is not
Valentine's Day has been connected to variousvery special one for the two of them.
stories. Legend links the day to a Roman priest,There are some who believe in spreading love
Valentine. It is believed that Emperor Claudius IIevery day while, for others, Valentine's Day is as
forbade young men to marry as he felt thatspecial and important as the other festivals we all
unwed men made stronger soldiers. Valentinecelebrate. Some find stuffed toys that say, "I
disobeyed the emperor's orders and solemnisedLove You" or "You are special" really cute while,
the marriage of the young couples. He wasfor others, they are the most stupid things to gift
apprehended and the emperor condemned him tosomeone. The perception of Valentine's Day is
death. St Valentine suffered martyrdom on 14different for every individual. Valentine's Day is a
February 270 AD and, ever since, Valentine's Dayday solely devoted to love, warmth, affection and
has been celebrated on 14 February.togetherness. It is the day to raise a special toast
Today, the meaning of the day might be confinedto a relationship that means the world to you.
to expressing love to your boyfriends orBut, in recent times, it has just become another
girlfriends but the day is made for you to expressway for people to make money. It is kind of
your feeling and warmth to all those for whomhurting to see the day and a beautiful emotion
you care, anyone can be your valentine - a friend,being measured and judged in terms of material
a soul mate, your parents, your siblings or justpresents. Probably this is the order of the day, as
about anyone who occupies an important place inwe see that even other festivals have become all
your life. It is the day for sweethearts - be itabout exchanging expensive gifts.
your lover, fiancee, wife, husband, brother, sisterTrue love does not need a bouquet of a hundred
or anyone with whom you share a special bond.roses or a sparkling diamond. It is more about the
Different people feel differently about the hypedepth of your love for someone.
that surrounds Valentine's Day. Some wonderAnd for those friends, who do not have a
why the expression of a special emotion shouldvalentine, don't pull a long face. You can indeed
be confined to one single day. Love is like magichave loads of fun even if there is no one special
and the day it comes into your life, that dayin your life to whom you can dedicate this day.
becomes even more special than Valentine's Day.CELEBRATION TIME
There is not something that you can plan.Just go out for a party with all your single buddies
On the contrary, for a few, it is about keepingand eat, drink, dance and make merry. No one
one day apart for the whole of society to comesays that you can't celebrate Valentine's Day if
together to make their loved ones feel specialyou don't have a date. And you never know, you
and worthy. Valentine's Day celebrates all shadesmay arrive back home with the one you were
and spheres of love. It is the celebration of lovelooking for.
of all kinds. Even if you are not in a relationship,So go out and explore. Plan a get-together of all
you can celebrate the day with equal zest.your old buddies. Spend the day watching a movie
No matter what your age is or to what part ofand just hanging out with friends. And if you are
the world you belong to, if you value love,feeling bad about the fact no one is there to
togetherness and heart-felt emotions, it is the dayshower gifts on you, just gift yourself. Buy some
for you to celebrate. Besides the gifts, cards andcool stuff for yourself.
lovely red roses, it is the day to lock someDecorate your room with flowers, candles and
wonderful memories forever into your heart. It ispictures of the most memorable moments of
about celebrating a special bond and to appreciateyour life. And if you are good with words, just go
someone in a very unique and exclusive manner.ahead and write something special to make the
And just remember, feelings are beyond theoccasion special.
fragrance of the flowers and the mesmerisingJust make yourself feel exclusive. Celebrate the
words on a card. Someone's wallet does notday by pampering yourself and making your
measure the love he or she has for you.surroundings pleasant and beautiful.
Everyone has a different perception of theValentine's Day is not about confining love to one
importance of Valentine's Day. If you truly love aday or measuring the depth of someone's love
person then the whole year is as special asand affection in material terms. It is just about
Valentine's Day, say some people. But there aredevoting a day solely to all your loved ones.
others who wait the whole year to say thoseIt is like giving everyone a common platform to
three golden words to someone, "I love you."celebrate the happiness of being with someone,
NO PLANNING FOR LOVEdedicating 24 hours to spread, express and
For Laura, every moment that she spends withcelebrate love and the emotion that has the
her loved one is special. She does not need apower to overshadow all realms of life.
special day to express her love and gratitude to