Who Pays For What in a Wedding?

You must iron out all the details of the wedding to4. The brides parents pay for the bride's gown,
make sure it is perfect for you. Expenses is aflowers for the reception and the wedding. They
major area that needs to be discussed prior topay for the photographer, the reception
the wedding day. If you agree up front, you willexpenses, food and drink, entertainment, the
make your wedding planning much easier. Thesecake and any transportation expenses involved. If
days, things can be a little different as notthere is an engagement party, they would pay
everyone follows the wedding etiquette. A lot offor that also. Further, they pay for invitations,
couples pay for things jointly and that is okay.thank you notes and postage.
Whatever works for you is really the best. You5. The bridesmaids pick up the cost of their own
have to do what is best for you and your family.dresses, the bridal shower, their own traveling
However, the list that follows is the traditional plan.expenses and the bachelorette party.
1. The bride pays for the wedding ring of the6. The groomsmen pay for their own clothing and
groom, a gift for the groom and gifts for thetravel to the wedding and the bachelor party.
bridesmaids and any costs associated with theThese are the traditional expectations, but in
bridesmaids which might include housing for thethese days of economic troubles, the
event if they are from out of town.responsibilities are being spread around to make
2. The groom pays for his bride's wedding andthe cost lower for each person and his or her
engagement rings, a gift for the bride and giftsfamily. In fact, a lot of times, the couple
for the groomsmen and housing costs if they arethemselves pay for their wedding plans. This too
from out of town. He also pays for his tuxedoshould be planned in advance so there will be no
and accessories along with any flowers,surprises for anyone.
boutonnieres, corsages, bouquets and flowers. HeHaving a plan and sticking to it also keeps couples
pays clergy fees, the marriage license and theand families from arguing later on and everyone
cost of the honeymoon. That is really quite a bitwill know what to expect. The plan should be
for the groom, so these days, family membersdiscussed with everyone involved as early as
help to pick up some of those expenses.possible. These are the things that will help to
3. The grooms parents are responsible for themake your day stress free and memorable.
rehearsal dinner.